Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - Quakes and Love

This week (as of 11:17 p.m. 12/28/2011) California and Nevada experienced a total of 731 earthquakes. They weren't strong enough to be notable and weren't even found newsworthy enough to make the evening news. They vary between 300 to 1000 per week in number, dependent upon what else is happening along the Pacific rim and the tektonic plate that bounds it.

While often unnoticed, should any one of them "rock our world," we would certainly take notice. It is much like walking in the grocercy store - shopping amidst those whose worlds have been rocked by foreclosure, illness, death or other relational pain. We don't even notice unless they act in some way out of the ordinary: show tears, talk to themselves or seem to speak aloud at one who is not present. And what do we do to ease this pain?

As we set our goals for 2012, have we included a measure of our growth in love for others? Does our legacy include description of one who loved all and loved well?

The greatest commandment - love the LORD your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your strength, and all your mind.' ..and the second like it love your neighbor as yourself. (Luke 10:27)

In looking away from ourselves toward another and treating them as we'd hope to be treated - with sensitivity, kindness, honesty and love, perhaps we can help to calm the quakes of life and provide at least a stepping stone of solid ground for another. In the midst - your kindness will be remembered...it will be a part of your legacy of love on this earth. How do you wish to be remembered?

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - A Little Pencil

I found this quote by Mother Teresa, "I am a little pencil in the hand of a writing God who is sending a love letter to the world." Oh, to be recognized as a "love letter to the world" because of a great, consistent love poured out upon each and everyone we come into contact with each day. Just think about that for a moment. How would that change your world: at home, at work, at the market, as you drive? I wonder - would my neighbor know a new person? Would my family recognize me? How I aspire to love unconditionally always without any expectation of return or "fairness." It is only then - in dying to self and selfishness - that God's love letter can be written upon my life and to the world. It is only then that we can fulfill 2 Corinthians 5:20, "Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were making an appeal through us; we beg you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God."

Those who know me, have often heard me say, if the church (we all), was being the church as intended with an outpouring of unconditional love, people would be beating down the doors to come in and be loved. I am grateful that we have a Book to guide the way that we might each be "a love letter to the world."

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - A True Friend

William Ward said, "A true friend knows your weaknesses but shows you your strengths; feels your fears but fortifies your faith; sees your anxieties but frees your spirit; recognizes your disabilities but emphasizes your possibilities."

How wonderful to know such a great friend as this. I had the pleasure of having lunch with such a friend today and receiving a wonderful message from another. I am indeed blessed beyond measure...but while either would take a call in the middle of the night if I needed them, there is one that is closer than a brother, who encourages our heart when we feel "no one could fully understand" and knows our inmost being so well that when "we do not know how to pray as we should, the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words." (Romans 8:26)

As we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, let it awake in us a desire to know this true friend as He knows us that others may see Him in us and come to know such great love as this...and let us be inspired to be a "true friend" to others.

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - Act from love

Mother Teresa once said, “If you judge people, you have no time to love them.”

People may not always act the way we would or believe they should in a given situation, but if we give them (as we'd hope they would us) the benefit of the doubt and go forward in love, we have hurt no one, and allow them to pass through that irregular moment unharmed and (better yet) loved unconditionally. We may be puzzled by the actions of others, but we've no right to judge and act upon our own assumptions. When we assume someone's motives or thoughts, we've trespassed into area where we don't belong, for "...[God] alone know[s] the hearts of all the sons of man." (1 Kings 8:39b)

Simply, we all have moments where we act out of our own woundedness and wound another and vice versa. That's why we have not been called to judge, but rather to love. "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no commandment greater than these.” (Mark 12:30-31)

With no greater commandment than those, I'd say love should be our rule as we walk through this day. Remember, there may be someone particularly wounded today who needs you to act in love.

God bless you day mightily - do it with love.

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - It's Not too Late - Dream!

Success requires the vision to see, the faith to believe and the courage to do.

Often we look at ourselves and say…it’s too late, I’m too old, too young, etc.. Today, though, I ask you again to dream… to dare to allow the vision that you push away to wash over you. See it clearly. Embrace it. Hang on to it and believe. And right now… today… take one step toward it.

You will have exhibited belief and courage; not only in yourself, but in mankind. You don’t know who’s watching you and may be inspired to allow their own dream and vision for their life to flourish, take flight and carry them right along with it.

Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men [and women] of courage; be strong. 1 Corinthians 16:13

How amazing that we live in a country where – because the Bible was the root of our founding father’s design – we have the freedom to “fly”, to “be”… to dream and ACT ON IT.

NOW GO DO IT!!!! And have a lot of fun along the way.

Monday, December 12, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - Fireflies & White Carpets

As a little girl on a trip to Texas to see family at Christmas, I was thrilled to see my first fireflies. At first just a few, and then, they seemed to fill the night in front of the car's headlights. It was amazing the way the shining little little lights danced in the headlights and then it appeared as though we were being engulfed by a swarm! My husband had a similar experience when he awoke to a surprise and ran to tell his parents about the pretty white carpet someone had placed in their yard.....You guessed it, both were "first snow" experiences.

It is amazing all that God has created and how - even now when snow falls, I feel the child-like wonder rise up in me again. I want to skip and run from window to window to see it and declare - It's snowing!

Give thanks to the LORD of lords, for His lovingkindness is everlasting. To Him who alone does great wonders, for His lovingkindness is everlasting; to Him who made the heavens with skill, for His lovingkindness is everlasting; To Him who spread out the earth above the waters...who made the great lights...the sun to rule by day...and the moon and stars to rule by night, for His lovingkindness is everlasting. Psalm 136:3-9

Enjoy this day... with thanksgiving and purpose!

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Beautiful Feet - Good News

"How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!" Romans 10:15

Amidst the turmoil of our times, when people turn against one another rather than working together toward a common goal, it is wonderful to hear good news. Today, I was blessed to hear such news....to know that a friend is a friend indeed.

How wonderful to make another feel as grand as I today. I would love to be that bearer of good news to another. I'm going to look for new ways to share good news every day!

Let's seek to have "beautiful feet."

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - Being Known

“Cheers” was a very popular show in the ‘80s, now syndicated and I’m sure one can find reruns should you so desire. I would at least watch the opening because I loved the theme song…”♫sometimes you want to go where everybody knows your name♫♪…”

I think deep down we all want to know others and to be known. It’s wonderful to walk into a crowded room and have people turn to say hello with recognition and warmth that can only be found in those that have some knowledge/history with you. Aren’t we especially blessed when we’ve met someone only once and upon seeing them elsewhere they remember our name? It’s just a good feeling.

Psalm 139:1-6 in part “…you have examined me and know all about me…You know my thoughts…where I go…lie down….everything I do. Even before I say a word, you already know it. You are all around me….and have put your hand on me….I can not comprehend.”

Not sure you want anyone to know quite that much? Well your creator does and He loves you and me more than can be imagined, beheld, comprehended. We are sons and daughters – princes and princesses – heirs of the Almighty. Hold your head high and be identified as such. Beautiful/Handsome, talented, gifted, loved,and known.

So, as I start this new day, full of possibilities and promise, I rise – remember who I am and again – hope to remind you of who you are.
Arise, shine for the Lord is King!

Your reflection is amazing!

Isn’t it amazing that even in the tiniest drop of dew on a blade of grass you can see the reflection of the sunshine, blue skies and even a fluffy white cloud or two? If such amazing sites can be had from this tiny offering, imagine all that you can reflect in the world.

You can reflect all of the life giving things that surround you – as you were created in the image of the Creator and God is love. Beloved, let us love one another. For love is of God and he who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love, does not know God for God is love. 1 John 4:7-8.

Let love shine through as you open the door for another, smile and wave in recognition, take cookies to a neighbor, mow the strip of grass between the houses, or pull up your neighbor’s trash can to his/her home side on your appointed pick up day. All are little things, requiring only moments of our time, but love IS in
the little things.

So today – go out and enjoy doing the little things for others. It’ll make your heart smile – I promise. 

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Today is an amazing day! Hopefully from you will flow the goodness and joy of your heart. Have you kept a vigilant watch on what you “receive” into your eyes, heart and mind?

Above all else, guard your heart for it is the wellspring of life….Proverbs 4:23
In moments of stress, turmoil and wear… what flows in your mind and heart? May it be filled with grace and gratitude and abundant life. Today – I am filled with gratitude for a life filled with love, laughter and grace.

Join me…. It is a great day – filled with life. Let’s live it on purpose and grace.

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - You Can Count on This

Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise;
Give thanks to Him and praise His name.
For the Lord is good and His love endures forever;
His faithfulness continues through all generations.
Psalm 100:4-5

How amazing to know that regardless of the gook and grime in our lives – the uncertainty and everchanging tide – we can count on this…. God loves you and has an amazing plan for your life. He remains faithful and on the throne.

Of all the "attitudes" we can acquire, surely the attitude of gratitude is the most important and by far the most life-changing. Zig Ziglar

Make this day one to remember for how it helped to build your legacy. Debby

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - Gift of Love

Every time you smile at someone it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.
MOTHER TERESA

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God and he who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love, does not know God for God is love. 1John 4:7-8

As people become irritated and unhappy during this season – dealing with shoppers, traffic, and the hustle and bustle in general, let’s show people who we are by greeting everyone with a smile. Who knows what the next person is thinking…. Their mind may be on a loved one in the hospital and so they bumped into you – or they may be facing the first year without a parent, relative or friend and are finding it bewildering.

Let’s be God’s arms to reach around and love to use our face to spread His love.
Remember… it may not be that another is arrogant or unkind “on purpose” but we can sure “love on purpose.”

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - You On Purpose

Today I am grateful that we are all “wired” differently – so unique in looks, size, shape, perspective, life experience, dream, goals, and gifts. Truly our gifts are meant to bless one another…and God’s gifts have been so gracious and so very big, yet required only a word on His part. Amazing that we will look in the mirror and find every fault – each new sign that we are a day older and criticize what God called “very good” and created “in His image.”

While we may see the beauty in others – we do not see what they see in us. How we take for granted that great and awesome heritage and the One Who delights in us so. Remember you are important enough that He knows your name – and yes, even the number of hairs on your head.

I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful , I know that full well. Psalm 139:14

When we look around – let us not only see the beauty in another, but join in the celebration He intends – LIVING ON PURPOSE – and proclaiming loudly:
O Lord, what a variety You have made! And in wisdom You have made them all! The earth is full of Your riches. Psalm 104:24

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - Blessing - on Purpose

In response to all He has done for us, let us outdo each other in being helpful and kind to each other and in doing good. Hebrews 10:24 (TLB)

Today we all rest warmly in the knowledge that we live with a roof over our head and I can imagine a bounty of blessings that are beyond the imagination of others in our country and world. So today – whether your wealth is of joy, love, monetary, gratitude – show it. Live it out ON PURPOSE.

There's often someone struggling with packages in a store - a door held open with a smile would be a gift at that moment. What about the person with the stressed look and one item in the grocery store who had the unhappy luck of finding no free lines - surely they are on their way somewhere and fretting being late. Wouldn't a welcome switch in line be a gift?
How about helping your neighbor with the lights or what about the neighbor you've noticed normally celebrates big and there's no sign this year....wouldn't a beautiful wreath and a "how are you?" bless them?

ON PURPOSE - Let's outdo one another showing love and compassion for others and each other.

Monday, November 28, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - Forgiven and Free to Be

There is a story of a little boy who – while playing with a slingshot – killed his grandmother’s duck that she loved to watch swim in her pond. The boy became his sister’s slave as she blackmailed him with the information - leaving him to doing her
chores as well as his own. Finally, breaking down, he confessed to his grandmother, who kindly confessed to him that she had known all along for she’d been at the kitchen window when the duck was killed and saw the whole thing. She was only waiting for him to come to her – he was already forgiven.

So it is with our Father in Heaven. This season finds remnants and memories of the past and broken relationships, of failures as another year closes, of deeds for which we would not be proud to have displayed in the town square (gossip, a drink too many, an unkind word or action, an untoward thought, a slip into an old addiction… the possibilities are many and as unique as each individual).

The good news is that Your Father was standing at the window and saw – you’ve been forgiven –and He doesn’t want you succumbing to the shame that continues to heap upon you unless you receive His forgiveness.

Today is a NEW DAY - Rejoice and be glad in it! Forgive yourself and be mindful that others are struggling through the same story – different details. Be kind and loving to them, too. You never know what visions/thoughts are keeping them down. Beloved, let us love one another – for love is of God and he who loves is born of God and knows God. He
who does not love, does not know God for God is love. 1 John 4:7-8
Let’s be beacons of hope, light and life and touch all of those around us. It is a legacy.

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - Roadblock or Building Block?

I am reminded today by processes and events that surround us daily, how we have the opportunity to be roadblocks or building blocks to peace, harmony and ultimately love in every circumstance. We’ve been taught since childhood that we are …to love one another. As I have loved you…. (John 13:34b-35a)

What does that look like? I believe it is a turning away from strife and speaking ill of another. I believe it is in the gratitude for this day that is allowed to flow and be passed on to those around you. Regardless this day of my own illness, injury, tiredness or sadness, I have a choice and with it an opportunity to make a difference for good this day…to live this day on purpose and for a greater purpose than mere existence.

Nicole Nordeman put it this way in one of my favorite songs – Legacy.

I want to leave a legacy
How will they remember me?
Did I choose to love?
Did I point to You enough To make a mark on things
I want to leave an offering
A child of mercy and grace Who blessed Your name unapologetically
And leave that kind of legacy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4qLL6W2-gJo

This is my goal…to leave that kind of legacy.
So, 19Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification. (Romans 14:19)

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Saying Thank You - Every Day!

While tomorrow is a day devoted - once a year - to saying thank you for all that we recognize as blessing in our lives, how much more wonderful would everyday be if we celebrated in attitude and action in the same way? Would there be more smiles and greetings to neighbors and strangers? Would there be more gratitude-filled prayer? Would we be a greater blessing to those around us if we rose each morning to say thank you: first to our Maker and then throughout our day?

I'm taking the challenge and standing on the truth. "My voice You shall hear in the morning, O Lord; in the morning I will direct it to You, and I will look up." Psalm 5:3

Enjoy the music in the link below. It is the Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir and I am hoping you will be blessed. I know their music in glorious praise blesses me and I am grateful!

http://www.last.fm/music/Brooklyn+Tabernacle+Choir

Monday, November 21, 2011

Attitude of Gratitude - Safe to Live Out Loud!!

Today I am grateful for all that I have and the time (unknown) that I have left to enjoy.

Our days are numbered but none of us knows that number. So today – I choose to give it all I’ve got…. To shine bright, dream big and be honest in kindness and love.

I grew up in a family that camped on vacation. Memories, lessons and times that were very dear to me and have served me well throughout my life. My sister and I had a habit of running ahead on the trails to find the next new and exciting sight to behold, whether it was a babbling brook, a banana slug, or a cool big rock to climb and sit upon. Every moment held excitement and that bottled up energy inside so full of life. Every once in a while, however, I would have the great “luck” to have a snake meander across the path separating me from the rest. (I’m not so much into snakes.) One time a train was coming – my family had said – just jump over it – but I had visions of the snake jumping up and biting me as I jumped across… so I froze. My father came and I jumped toward him as he held his hand out to me.

There has always been safety in my father’s grasp or embrace. As times come that loom in front of us as “a snake” we must remember that our Heavenly Father’s grasp is there. His hand extended – His arms open saying – “jump, I’ll catch you.” In that leap of faith – we are free to live – to dream – to love all of those around us as we are called to do in this life.

The LORD is the one who goes ahead of you; He will be with you. He will not fail you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed.” Deuteronomy 31:8

So today – jump, leap and run arms wide open into life and live this new day – running ahead, smiling, giggling, looking for the new and exciting sights along the way for your Father is with you.

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Think on these things....

During the past several weeks the weather has been thoroughly unpredictable. I've seen forecasts change day by day for any specific date. At the same time, I have observed people in a variety of situations in my life behave just as unpredictably. I know I've had periods of being "out-of-sorts."

Just as the wind has knocked things about a bit of late, we can feel as though we've been knocked about emotionally by others when they act unpredictably. Always, always, however, we have a choice. We can choose whether to "return fire" or to continue toward a day that blesses and honors the time given. Our reactions often reflect exactly what we have been focusing on. That is why we've been given these instructions:

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. (Philippians 4:8)

So, when there are mysteries swirling all about, be ready with those things that bring life....those things that are true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable and praiseworthy. It helps in thinking the best of another - or sometimes just seeking to understand. Here is some help...

"Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you." (Author unknown)
Truth: Today holds 24 hours. The way they are spent is entirely up to you. What will this day add/subtract from your legacy?

Monday, June 27, 2011

Place your hope above

At this time of year – and truthfully throughout the year – we will be disappointed, let down or unpleasantly surprised by another’s words, actions or lack thereof. Our hope is misplaced when placed in a person – for we are but human and prone to err. But if our hope remains in our Creator and Savior, then we are standing on sturdy ground with room to launch.

How would you treat people if you assumed they were good? If we gave one another the benefit of the doubt, how would it change the way we treated each other? Would we be more generous with our time and possessions? You know today you can smile at someone who has brought you grief because your trust and hope is not in them. It is in the Lord, who loves you without measure. So walk today with confidence. You are a child of the King and no one can take that away from you. And next week a good portion of the world will celebrate the Son’s birthday – whose suffering on your account made you a joint heir. Run with it!!!

Live, breathe, smile, laugh and celebrate this day ON PURPOSE because….Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles, they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Isaiah 40:31 NIV

Sunday, June 26, 2011

Tired and sun-scorched - come you will be strengthened

While my blow dryer at home has seen it's last days, the outside weather seems to take it's place with the 110+ degree weather and winds that have ranged
between 5-25 mph at any given time. Sometimes the heat can cause me to be irritable and experience "brain fog" among other things, leaving well laid plans
abandoned for comfort and a desire to simply rest. I am so glad we have a guide to lead the way.

God is good and has given us this amazing promise.

The LORD will guide you always;
he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land
and will strengthen your frame.
You will be like a well-watered garden,
like a spring whose waters never fail. Isaiah 58:11

So in this very sun-scorched land, I find strength in the knowledge that the LORD will guide the way, strengthen me and His living water will flow through me...me...(oh my goodness - imperfect sinner/saint me) and those waters will never fail. I can be used as a spring of life in all of my frailties and human-ness - we all can! Isn't that exciting? Imagine and step into that truth today. God bless you richly as you do.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Encourage, Support the Dreams Around You

We all mold one another’s dreams.
We all hold each other’s fragile hopes in our hands.
We all touch others’ hearts.

It is true that we help to shape and mold another’s dreams and aspirations. A nod of approval, silence, or an excited smile and exuberant expression of what the realization of the dream may look like all contribute or detract from the confidence with which one allows the dream to flourish.

When hopes are shared… they are laid out on a table bare for view as a small plant just starting to bud. If the life-giving sunshine it requires is withdrawn, it will wither away, never realizing the glory of the full bloom. We can provide that life-sustaining light or adversely cast a shadow upon someone’s hopes. It is a tenuous, trusting moment within which they have been shared and we must respect the privilege and be gentle in the care of it.

So… today, with fear and trembling along with wild excitement at the possibilities I encourage you to – right where you are – revisit your dream. Share it with a trusted friend… and GO FOR IT!!!!

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. John 13:34


I’m rooting for you!

Here I Am Before You Lord

There is so much activity around me these days, sometimes I feel as though I'm in the midst of a whirlwind of good news, uncertainty, tragedy, mishaps and great delights and hillarity. This week has been a mixed bag for certain! Weeks like these leave me seeking a block of time to simply spend on my knees in worship and communion - sorrow, joy - a heart's cry.

"And when I saw Him, I fell at His feet as dead." Revelation 1:17

During times of deep worship it is as though I've touched His garment in the crowd and His peace, joy, love and life have washed over me. I pray this for you today. May you experience a new level of worship, peace, joy and life today as you seek His face.

I hope this helps:http://www.godtube.com/watch/?v=DY667GNX

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Attitude - noble

Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things. Philippians 4:8

What is noble that we should think about? The dictionary defines noble as high-minded, magnanimous, loftiness of principle, character, mind or spirit and consistently adhering to elevated principles – a greatness of mind or soul. Wow!!! Is noble, then, expecting the best of ourselves and seeking out the best in others and the situations around us? I believe it includes such things as elevating lunch room talk…and others. I believe it includes admiring and being grateful for the beauty of each day, writing, art, and music that elevate us to a better place so that we are encouraged and in turn encourage others toward making their mark… living today on purpose.

I continue to look for the noble today…so grateful for the opportunity to lift another along the way.

Have an awesome – day focusing on Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Celebrate today - Renew!

He has risen!! He has risen indeed!!

What a wonderful way to start this week, celebrating new, redeemed life and our risen LORD.
It is through our LORD, Who has concurred all things - even death, that we are able to do all things. As the flowers bloom around us, let us take their lead and bloom - open wide and live OUT LOUD reaching for the stars with arms wide open and spilling forth with the love that is overflowing from the Creator and Savior who first loved us.

(Philippians 4:13) I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.

So, with this knowledge in hand and in our hearts, go forth and take a step in faith - a step in renewal. God bless you greatly this week!

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

New Day New Energy New Blessings

I am grateful for wonderful weekdays! And the opportunity a new week provides. We can look at the old with a fresh eye – with new solutions, ideas and energy! We also have the remarkable opportunity to bless someone today.

Eunice Bathrick wrote: Little acts of kindness which we render to each other in everyday life are like flowers by the wayside to the traveler: they serve to gladden the heart and relieve the tedium of life’s journey.

While I believe tedium only exists where we allow it, I also believe that small kindnesses are wonderful deposits towards a more successful work environment. Happier people produce better because they can see their possibilities. One is often cheered by a sincere smile, compliment, even a simple thank you. So – let’s bless someone today. If you’re really on a role – bless as many as you can. The blessings will return to you – maybe not by those you’ve blessed, but by the energy and love you have spread, by God Himself through another whom He has so inclined.

From the fullness of his grace we have all received one blessing after another. John 1:16.

Blessings upon blessings to you today.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Today - Good or Bad - Your Choice

During the past several weeks the weather has been thoroughly unpredictable. I've seen forecasts change day by day for any specific date. At the same time, I have observed people in a variety of situations in my life behave just as unpredictably. Perhaps it is remnant effects of of the Supermoon or just the "mood" in general... I know I've had periods of being "out-of-sorts."

Just as the wind has knocked things about a bit of late, we can feel as though we've been knocked about emotionally by others when they act unpredictably. Always, always, however, we have a choice. We can choose whether to "return fire" or to continue toward a day that blesses and honors the time given. Our reactions often reflect exactly what we have been focusing on. That is why we've been given these instructions:

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. (Philippians 4:8)

So, when there are mysteries swirling all about, be ready with those things that bring life....those things that are true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable and praiseworthy. It helps in thinking the best of another - or sometimes just seeking to understand. Here is some help...

"Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you." (Author unknown)
Truth: Today holds 24 hours. The way they are spent is entirely up to you. What will this day add/subtract from your legacy?

Thursday, March 31, 2011

Dress Up no matter what you're wearing :-)

Okay – take a deep breath. We’re almost there……

It’s Thursday!!!!

I was sooooo pleasantly surprised yesterday to get home and walk into the cool evening air. The light breeze added to my pleasure. Our pets welcomed me and I began working on those things “around the house” that needed to be completed. I’m smiling still from the wonderful evening that followed. So, today I “dressed up.” The best way to dress up is to put on a smile. A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

"The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.
Man looks at outward appearance,
But the Lord looks at the heart."
I Samuel 16:7


How lovely that the smile dresses us both outwardly and inwardly. That one little action seems to cause a “smile inside” AND immediately improves our own mood…… I’m so glad, though, that God sees my heart and its desires and longings… and joy in each day – as well as those things that make you go “ugh.”


For today – let’s smile and improve not only our appearance, but those around us. I understand it’s catching. Have a great day!

Monday, March 28, 2011

Your Passion... your legacy

I recently read, I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something, and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do. I was so inspired by it, particularly because of who the author was. She was left deaf and blind at 19 months as a result of a childhood illness, yet became one of the most thoughtful, poignant authors. Her name, Helen Keller. While she inspires me, I am also a bit ashamed. She touched so many lives, never seemed to feel sorry for herself or wallow in self-pity, though none of us would have blamed her if she had.

I am lead back to the question, "what will my legacy be?" What have I done that is noteworthy or inspiring? Or more importantly, perhaps, what am I supposed to be doing? I have come to believe that God puts desires in our heart and repeats them, kind of like "knock knock knock, I'm trying to tell you something.” I’ve found He speaks to me in my heart when I become excited and animated about something – my passion. I know what mine is; do you know yours, or has it become lost in the necessities of budget and responsibility? Take some time today – even 10 minutes and ask God to bring to your mind those things that make you feel exhilarated - – to remind you of your passion.

May He give you the desire of your heart and make all your plans succeed. Psalm 20:4

As you are reminded of your passion, share it with a trusted someone who will support and encourage you to follow it every day....even one step closer. And as you feel comfortable, please share with us. You can sign into the blog for that purpose. I look forward to reading your passions and what actions you are taking to follow them.

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Success, vision, faith & Courage - TODAY

Success requires the vision to see, the faith to believe and the courage to do.

Often we look at ourselves and say…it’s too late, I’m too old, too young, etc.. Today, though, I ask you again to dream… to dare to allow the vision that you push away to wash over you. See it clearly. Embrace it. Hang on to it and believe. And right now… today… take one step toward it.

You will have exhibited belief and courage; not only in yourself, but in mankind. You don’t know who’s watching you and may be inspired to allow their own dream and vision for their life to flourish, take flight and carry them right along with it.

Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men [and women] of courage; be strong.

1 Corinthians 16:13

How amazing that we live in a country where – because the Bible was the root of our founding father’s design – we have the freedom to “fly”, to “be”… to dream and ACT ON IT.

NOW GO DO IT!!!! And have a lot of fun along the way.

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Let your joy be complete

Wow!! The last few weeks have held so much...great time with friends and family, hard ships and world events that have caused deep introspection - grief mixed with the inspiration to live each day full of grace and joy. The key to that joy is found in love - "If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you." (John 15:10-12)

It sounds easy enough, doesn't it? Love one another. Love one another - not just in the good times when all is going well, but also in the difficult times when we fail to understand one another and need to extend grace and trust ... in love. Love even when we don't perceive another to be lovable. Love can be "holding your tongue" when another attacks. It may be "being still" while you wait upon another who seems a bit out of sorts. It may be in doing the mundane - washing dishes, cleaning, laundry, even picking up stray garbage that has blown in front of your neighbor's home. Today I encourage you to look for a way to show love to another...that your joy may be complete.

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

True Ambition ....Greatness in Serving

Offered as a prayer -

Give us true ambition—ambition to find our greatness in serving others, and the ambition to put into life more than we take out. — William Barclay

My parents always said as we hiked, visited parks or most anywhere to always leave a place better than we found it…. Often this found us picking up trash left by less careful trekkers, but we saw it not only as a duty, but a delight to make the area more beautiful. There were those that would look at us as though we were nuts or at other times, somewhat grateful for the small improvement.

In this “true ambition” we are to understand that it really is the only eternal thing we have to offer this world – and as believers – we are not home, but only here for a short while until we go home to be with our Heavenly Father. There is a line from a Christian song that has always struck me - we are but aliens in this world. Meaning – we won’t be understood fully, our actions may not make the headlines or cause us to be renowned, but we follow our Heavenly Father as adopted heirs through Christ Jesus, our Lord and Savior – and we march to a “different tune” – one I hope others find more loving, kind, considerate and refreshing.

In my Father's house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.... John 14:2

HOME I’m so grateful God is in control. Now go out and change your world! You can do it – one smile, act of kindness, conversation, or even piece of the discarded at a time. ENJOY!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Intentions go wanting without action...

Mother Teresa said, "Don't look for big things, just do small things
with great love.".

Recently I learned a valuable lesson. I have always had a thing about
giving the perfect gift for an occasion or I would feel really
bad...sometimes my budget wouldn't allow me to do as I wished for
another and instead of doing what I could at the time, my head would be
stuck with the perfect gift and I would do nothing at all because it
would not meet my own expectations. I would feel awful, but more
importantly the intended recipient would feel as though I didn't care
because I wasn't there. A small thing in love would have made them feel more special.

"Do what you can with what you have where you are." Theodore Roosevelt

"...if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing." 1 Corinthians 13:2b

You see, no one knows our intention unless we act. That person you've been praying for could use a kind note or word from you. It's only then that they even know you care, that you're in their corner and supporting them along the way.

So today...ask God to bring someone to mind that needs an act of kindness and act.

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Tired? Focus on the Truth

Lately some "bug" has been making it's way through our office and I have been waking a little “under-the-weather” with wishes of remaining in bed for a few more hours of rest. I find myself slow to move and – as I have found – also more susceptible to
negative thoughts and words followed by the sting of regret for having allowed a momentary lapse in the guarding of my mind and sometimes even my tongue. OUCH!

It is too easy to allow the negative to creep in, especially in this trying economic climate where tension, fear and doubt seem to hang in the air and the media is constantly blasting us with news of our further demise. We can often feel as though we are wading our way through the quagmire – trudging along with each tentative step in the shifting bog.

Lucky for us there are instructions as to what to do in these times. First we repent. Get right before God and our peer(s) and move on to … whatever is true, whatever is honorable,whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things. (Phil. 4:8)
Truly – we must dwell – live in the midst of and fill our mind with those things that are true,honorable, right, pure, lovely, of good repute, excellence and worthy of praise. It changes our face, step and very essence as we do so. We become more approachable, more likely to share a smile and to be a beacon for another whose lost their way.

So today - here goes...I'm choosing to begin with my focus in the right place. Won't you join me?

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Guard your heart so you can be a blessing...

I love going to my email and finding a message from family or friends. I hear the writer's voice, see their face and have a few moments with them no matter the time of day or night. It is a lovely oasis any time...a place where my heart is filled to overflowing as I basque in that life-giving moment. It helps to combat the stories of gloom and violence that seem so prevalent. I can see why we are to Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Proverbs 4:23 I rarely "catch the news" these days. The violence and unkindness that we human beings have the ability to inflict upon one another is just too painful. It is but one of the ways I attempt to guard my heart.

Did you know that it is even good for your health to have a happy heart? According to Proverbs 17:22 a cheerful heart is good medicine, so let's open the doors of our happy heart and bless those around us with good medicine.

The familiar...




These are familiar sites for me – along Lake Tahoe. They make me smile and it’s almost as though I can feel the sun shining on my face – the cool mountain air dislodging my hair enough to cool my neck.

Familiarity rests within our heart and is brought to the forefront when we see, hear, touch or smell something from our past or the joy of our heart in the present.

For me – my present is wonderful – a place where I love and am loved – my cup runneth over. When I view these familiar sites I am welled up to overflowing as they blend with my state of being.

To know and be known – to love and be loved – are the greatest cries of our heart. And now these three remain – faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13:13

Love is what makes “chores” into blessings to another. Love is why we hold onto someone dear shivering with fever with no regard for our own health. Love is what gets us up out of a comfy embrace to fetch a glass of juice or water for another…to do the mundane so that someone does not have to. It is love that never fails.

So in this new day … eyes twinkling bright with the love that fills your being - let it shine. Speak to another with a smile and let them feel familiar… loved.

I am so grateful for this new day.

Monday, February 7, 2011

Every Day a New Day

“Teach us to number our days and recognize how few they are, help us to spend them as we should.” Psalm 90:12 TLB

Each day the news is a reminder that we are not on this planet at our own will and design and that each day is a day that can not be returned once spent.

Today is a new day – a new week – a new adventure and I want it to count for everything. Should tomorrow take me to heaven, I want to have lived and loved well…to not have withheld love, kindness,goodness or encouragement from anyone, but to have added to the lives of those with whom I come in contact.

So I will number this day 1 and tomorrow day 1 and the next day 1 as well, planning to live each with the life and newness every new dawn brings.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Meet every circumstance with gratitude in the midst

James Allen said,"Circumstance does not make the man; it reveals him to himself." What an amazing truth! It is in time of crisis that we find out what we are made of. Is our first reaction one of blame or anger? Or do we remain faithful; grateful for all that we have been blessed with as we move forward through the challenge?

Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. (1 Thessalonians 5:18)
Now may the Lord of peace Himself continually grant you peace in every circumstance The Lord be with you all! (2 Thessalonians 3:16)


Remember - as your neighbor witnesses your kindness to others, he/she also witnesses your reaction to a flat tire, a broken lawn mower, a noisy neighbor, or any of a number of unpleasant surprises. All that you have done well, with love and care can be undone in those moments if your reaction belies the words of encouragement you've shared in their moments of distress.



So be vigilent .... be grateful... always.



Have a wonderful day filled with gratitude in the midst of your circumstance. I'm in the balcony cheering you on.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Let your light shine!

Today flying above the clouds with occasional glimpses of stunning mountain views, I was filled with wonder. There was breathtaking beauty before me for miles and miles and miles. As the sun set over the horizon, beacons of light would reveal small communities and even lone homes - oasis in the midst of wilderness. As I peered from this new perspective, I was reminded of the sea of people we live and move within and thought of those lovely people I know within it who are beacons in the storm. They are genuine, caring people whom you know you can trust - a safe harbor in the face of adversity...a friend along the way. I am blessed to have many in my life, but recently a co-worker - known for her tremendous sense of humor and kindness, delivered a card and gift as I was ready to embarq on a trip. I was so moved. She was an answer to prayer as she ministered to my concerns. I was full of gratitude for her and for God.

In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. (Matthew 5:16).

It causes me to examine myself....does my light shine? Am I a lighthouse in the sea of people shining a message of hope on the way to the Savior? I'm working on it. Let your light shine my friends!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Pay Attention - Gifts are Showing All Around

In a Washington, DC Metro Station on a cold January morning in 2007. The man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time approx. 2,000 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After 3 minutes a middle aged man noticed there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds and then hurried to meet his schedule, next a woman rushed by and threw a dollar in the hat, and a few minutes later a young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, but a glance at his watch spurned him to walk on. A few minutes later a 3-year old boy stopped but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. Every parent, without exception, forced their children to move on quickly. Forty-five minutes and the musician played continuously. Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace. The man collected a total of $32.

At one hour, he finished playing and silence returned. No one noticed. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition. No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before Joshua Bell sold out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100.

This is a true story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people's priorities. It raised several questions: in a common place environment at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?

So I must ask - what do we miss each day in the many talented people around us? How many of God's gifts do we take for granted or not even notice at all?


"I want you to realize what a rich and glorious inheritance God has given his people." Ephesians 1:18

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

You are fearfully and wonderfully made

Behind every success lies ambition… Behind every ambition - effort…
Behind every effort there is someone who is willing to try.
How often do we get lost in our own list of inadequacies, never realizing that others have not trod the
road we have, acquired the knowledge, talent, skills, been given the unique combination of intelligence
with our experiences. God made each of us unique, individuals hoping we would grasp hold fully and
wholly of the amazing creation – IN HIS IMAGE – we are.
For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb, I praise you because I am
fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful and I know that full well.
Psalm 139: 13-14
He wants for us to run into the world – arms spread and say “here I am.” Where are your dreams? You
know, while it’s the very young “successes” that make it to the news… its more common for people over
35 to find/return to their passion and make it a success with their acquired experience, knowledge and
desire. LET’S GO FOR IT – GIVE IT A TRY!!!

Sunday, January 2, 2011

A New Year - What will you do with it?

Happy New Year and Decade!!!

I know new years resolutions are seen to be a yearly effort lasting - many times - only a short time. But we are called to examine ourselves - our lives and continue to do so with scripture as our measure. We are called to "...examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the LORD." (Lamentations 3:40) As I participate in this examination I am compelled to make some determinations going forward. One of mine this year is again - purpose to live with intention. James Allen once said, "Dream lofty dreams, and as you dream, so you shall become. Your vision is the promise of what you shall one day be; your ideal is the prophecy of what you shall at last unveil."

What will your life unveil? What does your gradual unveiling look like?

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